So last year I actually found out I liked girls. I was in a relationship with a boy during that time but we broke up recently because he liked boys and found out this year, but he only seemed to say it when I told him I was Bisexual, so i wasn't sure if I would believe him, but we broke up anyway from a two year relationship.
But now I realise how much I actually love females, the way my chest becomes tight every time I see beautiful females and my neck starts to sweat kinda gross right. Ahh. I have a problem however, I'm 18 and African. I live in a Nigerian household, that is very religious and very strict in all the ways of life. I don't know what will happen, I don't know how to tell my family, It's weird I don't know what to do. I've spent a whole year trying to think of ways to allow them to understand that I like girls. They always make these horrible homophobic jokes and i get offended by them, but as the quiet Nigerian girl i was brought up to be i say nothing.
Need Your Advice February 16, 2017 at 7:05 pm51 389
When you turn the age of adulthood and move out of their house then you can tell. Until then please keep your mouth shut. Telling them would be extremely dangerous. They WILL NOT understand. Anonymous 9 months ago